DIVORCE: DO IT DIFFERENTLY™️

The Roadmap to Protecting Your Peace (and Your People)

You’re standing at a bend in the road. And that can feel terrifying.

Maybe you’ve been circling the same questions for months:

Should I stay? Is this really over?

Or maybe the decision was made for you in a moment you didn’t choose.

Either way, your life is shifting — and suddenly you’re expected to know what comes next.

How do you rebuild when the ground moves?

How do you protect your kids while you’re still catching your breath?

How do you communicate with someone who sends your nervous system into overdrive?

You’re not supposed to have those answers yet.

That’s why we’re here.

You’re exhausted, overwhelmed, and walking a tightrope between not wanting to cause damage — and desperately needing peace.

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If you’ve said any of these things lately, you’re in the right place :

  • “I just want this to stop feeling so hard.”

  • “I don’t even know where to begin.”

  • “I’m scared I’m going to wreck my kids — or lose myself trying not to.”

  • “I just want to feel like myself again.”

  • “I can’t keep walking on eggshells.”

This course doesn’t offer empty affirmations.

It offers clarity.

Structure.

Language for the conversations that leave you tongue-tied.

And a way forward that keeps you — and the people you love most — as intact as possible

Divorce: Do It Differently™️ is your roadmap through the fog.

A self-paced, grounded, and emotionally intelligent course designed to help you handle divorce in a way that’s calm, clear, and completely your own.

We won’t tell you how to feel.

We won’t promise it will all be easy.

But we will walk you step-by-step through everything you need to stay steady — for yourself and your family — no matter how stormy things feel right now.

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What does “doing it differently” really look like?

Most people go into divorce afraid of a courtroom battle.

Fueled by fear.

Maybe advised by people who haven’t taken the time to know your values.

We’re here to offer something else:

  • A way to communicate that doesn’t feel like you're just bracing for impact.

  • A way to set boundaries without guilt.

  • A way to handle finances with calm, clear steps — not chaos.

  • A way to make decisions that align with your integrity — even when emotions run high.

  • "After weeks of feeling overwhelmed, I finally felt like I could breathe. The clarity and direction were a lifesaver."

    - DYLAN

  • "I walked away believing I could handle this with dignity. If you're ready to do it differently, this is the place.

    - SUSAN

  • "This helped me talk to my ex without losing it. I wish I found this sooner - it would have saved so many tears."

    - AMY

Modules

You’ll move through our modules and lessons at your own pace, building your own strength & readiness as you go.

These lessons go deep — from how to talk to your children in age-approprite ways, to what to say (and not to say) when introducing a new partner, to how to handle family members who keep giving unsolicited advice.

This isn’t just theory — it’s grounded in real-world support.

  • Before you can navigate this season well, you need to ground yourself.

    This module helps you set emotional and practical intentions that reflect who you truly are — not just who the conflict has made you become.

    KEY TAKEAWAYS:

    • Identify your core values and personal “non-negotiables” before making big decisions

    • Discover the inner anchors that will guide your choices and protect your peace

    • Begin organizing your financial picture so you can face this process with confidence

  • Relationships shift during divorce — with your kids, your family, and yourself.

    This module gives you guidance and language to handle those hard conversations with clarity, kindness, and steadiness.

    KEY TAKEAWAYS:

    • Learn the different ways to approach divorce so you can choose what aligns with your values

    • Talk to your kids in a way that’s age-appropriate, honest, and emotionally safe

    • Navigate tricky family conversations with calm confidence — even when emotions run high

  • Divorce doesn’t just affect your closest people — it affects your wider world too.

    This module helps you decide what to share, how to share it, and how to protect your boundaries in work and social spaces.

    KEY TAKEAWAYS:

    • Learn how to have grounded conversations with friends who may not know what to say

    • Decide how much to share with co-workers and when it’s okay to say “less is more”

    • Prepare for potential job-related shifts and how to advocate for yourself professionally

  • Now that the storm has passed (or at least quieted), it’s time to rebuild. This module helps you integrate everything you’ve learned, handle new transitions with grace, and start creating a life you’re excited about.

    KEY TAKEAWAYS:

    • Handle the challenges of introducing a new partner (without guilt or guesswork)

    • Review your personal “toolbox” — a go-to resource for future moments of overwhelm

    • Embrace a mindset of abundance as you take your next step forward with intention

Divorce: Do It Differently

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INTRODUCING

Eleven Comprehensive Lessons

Each designed to build both emotional resilience and practical readiness.

On-Demand Video Lessons

Watch anywhere, anytime.

Downloadable Workbook

Beautifully designed digital workbook with reflection prompts & checklists.

Lifetime Access

No deadlines. No pressure.

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Meet our team

Hi, we’re Katie & Marta

We’re the co-founders of The Bend.

Together we’ve worked with hundreds of people navigating high-stakes divorce, intense family conflict, and relationship breakdowns both personal and professional.

We’re both trained mediators and communcation specialists. But more than that — we’re women who’ve lived through hard seasons.

We know exactly what it’s like to feel stuck, reactive, and unsure how to come back to yourself.

The Bend — and this course — exist because we believe conflict doesn’t have to destroy you.

You can bend without breaking.

And you can show up with steadiness…even when everything around you feels like a storm.

This course won’t fix your divorce.

But it will steady you through it.

Here’s what we know: No one teaches us how to do this.

We’re all winging it, half-panicked and hyper-Googling.

That’s where the pain piles up — in the uncertainty, the second-guessing, the silence.

This course offers a path out of that spiral. You’ll learn how to…

Stay grounded and steady when conflict {inevitably} flares


Respond strategically and peacefully…instead of just reacting


Say what needs to be said — without losing your voice


And walk forward with clarity, instead of confusion

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  • Absolutely. Whether you’re considering divorce, in the middle of it, or recently separated, this course is here to support your next step — no matter where you are.

  • We offer Mediation services as well as Divorce Coaching in addition to the course. Please reach out here to email us - no pressure, always.

  • Not at all. You’ve got access for the lifetime of the course, and you can go at your own pace — whether that means 10 days or 10 months.

  • Great question, thanks for asking! All purchases of the course are final since this is an instantly-accessible digital course.

    Of course, if something doesn’t work or if you have a question, click here to reach out and we’ll get you sorted.

Let us help YOU breathe again.

There’s no perfect way to divorce. But there is a peaceful one.

Let us show you how.

Always cheering you on,

Katie + Marta

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